Stop beating yourself up! It’s about time to rediscover yourself and be happy. When was the last time you really feel good about yourself? How many things that you love doing but neglected them somehow? How long would you punish yourself on stuffs that making you a zombie?
It’s about time to remember the bits and pieces that make you happy. It’s about time to redirect yourself and be amused by the things you love doing. If you love to sing in a shower but you couldn’t do it anymore coz you’re always in a rush to get ready, do it! Never mind if you’d be tardy once in a while. If you love dancing but no time to groove coz you need to meet deadlines, dance! Work must be done only during workdays. Non-workdays must be free from any work related activities. So who says you can’t dance on weekends? Party if you must!
Sing, dance, paint, read, play golf, etc.! The point is, don’t give up something you love doing just because you’re busy doing other things. Time management is always the key. Don’t deprive yourself from stuffs you love just because you’re busy raising a family, getting yourself promoted…blah, blah, blah. In a nutshell, no one can make you happy unless you know how to be happy by yourself.