Monday, April 29, 2013

Relationship 101



Committing into a relationship is no joke at all.  As the old adage says “It takes two to tango.”  There is no perfect formula on how a relationship last, but certainly there are some effective ways to make a relationship work.

If you want your relationship to work and last longer, apply T.L.C.  Yes! TLC could mean tender loving care but it could also be trust, love & communication.

Trust.  This means you don’t to have to be jealous.  You may say jealousy is normal, but it is not.  When there is jealousy in a relationship, trust for both parties may be tainted.

Love.  When you love somebody, you think of the other person's happiness.  It shouldn’t be because he/she makes you happy.  Love should be unconditional.  You allow yourself to be part of someone’s life and accept someone into your life. This means you care and you share.

Communication.  “Actions speak louder than words”.  But would it be better that you act and speak how you feel toward a person?  Open communication allows you to listen and comprehend the thoughts and feelings of the other person and vice-versa.

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